Tag: cemetery

  • Monday Marginalia – A Walk In Mimosa Cemetery

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    I love history and Mike enjoys it.  One of the ways we’ve come to know an area we visit or live is by getting to know the local history.  A way to do this is by cemetery walks with good history guides.  We’ve enjoyed them in Kenosha, Burlington, Savannah, Charleston, and now here in Lawrenceburg.  On October 22nd,  after clipping an article from the local (twice weekly) paper, we attended on here sponsered by the library.  It was excellent right there with the best.  We met 10 former citizens of Lawrenceburg some great, some notable, some infamous.

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  • Kenosha Women Weren’t Wallflowers

    Kenosha Women Weren’t Wallflowers

    Office of the Green Ridge Cemetery in Kenosha
    Office of the Green Ridge Cemetery in Kenosha. The tent was set up to be a wind free waiting room for the history walk tours.

    I want to thank my blog readers.  Because of you I’m learning more about the area in which I live.  Yes the feed the blog need has me going out to learn about my community.  Thank you for giving me the gentle push out the door and opening my world.

    One of our historic cemeteries here in Kenosha city is the Green Ridge Cemetery.  It is the oldest one holding graves of two and a memorial for one Revolutionary Soldiers. Every October there is a history walk in the cemetery given by the Kenosha History Center.  It’s different from the other cemetery history walks in that the guide doesn’t tell you the history but instead takes you designated graves where reenactors portray the person and tell you their life story.

    I’ve wanted to do this tour (which changes what historical figures it highlights  each year) for years.  It seems something always got in the way.  Last year I got there about 2pm and all the tickets were given out. Yes 350 tickets for the free tours were GONE!  There were crowds waiting for their tour time.

    History Walk At Green Ridge Cemetery - Great Women of Kenosha

    This year I made sure we got there EARLY!  We got tickets and were in the first tour.  It was the first fall day with a nip in the air.  Mike was freezing.  Still we enjoyed it very much as the sun was out and the colors (though dull this year compared to previous years) were out.

    History Walk At Green Ridge Cemetery - Great Women of Kenosha
    Naomi Waisman-Zabler portraying Dr. Helen Harbert

    Our first stop was Dr. Helen Harbert (1859-1930) portrayed by Naomi Waisman-Zabler.  Helen was born Hanson and immigrated to the US from Denmark.  She went to medical school and was one of the first licensed female doctors.  She lost her first husband and her children in a tragic house fire while she was at her practice.  Needing a new start she moved to Kenosha and started the first woman doctor’s practice here.  She met and married Hans Harbert.  During her life here in Kenosha she was a highly respected member of the community.  She served on the Kenosha County Medical Association, active with the Grad Army of the Republic Women’s Relief Corps taking care of Army Vets free of charge, active in the Danish Lodge, was a major Red Cross organizer in the county, and during WWI she actively promoted Liberty Bonds to support the troops.  However she became ill.  Her diagnosis was terminal and she knew how slow the death was with her aliment.  She’d tended patients with the same affliction (I don’t remember what it was but a type of cancer) and knew how they wasted away painfully.  After receiving confirmation of her diagnosis while in the Kenosha Hospital for testing she jumped out the window killing herself to avoid the wasting away.   She died at the age of 71.

    History Walk At Green Ridge Cemetery - Great Women of Kenosha
    Kathy Cole portraying Gertrude Alford

    Next was Kathy Cole who was portraying Gertrude Alford (1881-1964) at Mrs. Alford’s grave. Gertrude and her husband Walter moved to Kenosha from Detroit Michigan.  They became highly respected in Kenosha for their philanthropic generosity.  They sadly lost their only son when his car was hit by a train during a scavenger hunt.  He and his date were killed.  After that Gertrude turned her philanthropic tenancies toward helping young men and women.  After finding out about the Girls Scouts she founded one of the first troops in the nation here in Kenosha Wisconsin.  It is still active today and its original charter bears the signatures of Gertrude and Juliette Gordon Lowe (founder of the movement).  To support the new troop and the Boy Scouts Gertrude donated a large parcel of land for the scouts use.  Today it is Woodhaven Program Center and is still the hub of scouting  for the area today.  Gertrude was known for her love of golf.  She played well into her senior years and always had clubs in her car in case she could squeeze a few holes in between her appointments.

    History Walk At Green Ridge Cemetery - Great Women of Kenosha
    Julie Burton portraying Jane Pfenning Henkel (my apologies to Ms. Burton she was a WONDERFUL and expressive reenactor! However all my shots seemed to catch her in unflattering expressions. My apologies Ms. Burton)

    The next woman on the tour  was Jane Pfenning Henkel (1914-2008) portrayed by Julie Burton.  Jane is the first native Kenoshian on the tour.  Her father was Mayor.  Her story intertwines with Gertrude Alford’s above.  You see Jane was the first girl Alford’s son had asked to the the scavenger hunt.  Jane excited to be asked by the posh Alford said YES!  Only there was one problem he wasn’t the first to ask her and she’d already said yes to another young man.  When her mother found out she made Jane tell Alford no she couldn’t go and stick to her word in accepting the first boy’s invitation.  If she’d gone with Alford she’d been in the car that struck by the train killing Alford, his date, and two more of their friends.  Jane lived a long happy life thanks to Mom’s intervention and making Jane hold to her word.

    History Walk At Green Ridge Cemetery - Great Women of Kenosha
    Jean Preston portraying Lauretta A. Dibble

    We then moved on to the grave of Lauretta A. Dibble (1893-1952) portrayed by Jean Preston.  This was the second native Kenoshian.  She was born and died here but lived most of her life outside of Kenosha.  Lauretta was a missionary for the Congregational Church.  She spent years of her life teaching at a girls school in Africa.  She sent letters and journals home to her church here in Kenosha detailing her life in Africa.  The church here paid her salary and expenses to be at the school there.  She fell in love the people and culture learning many of the native crafts and cuisines   She sent back artwork and crafts to her church to show the beautiful work and to sell to raise money to support the school.  Unfortunately Lauretta developed cancer and had to come back to the United States for treatment.  She received letters regularly from the girls she taught and had taught.  These letters were dear to her and kept her spirits up while she was dying.  Lauretta died in 1952 here in Kenosha at her family home.

    History Walk At Green Ridge Cemetery - Great Women of Kenosha
    Viki Du Mez portraying the colorful Harriet H. Yule

    The final stop was at the memorial for Harriet H. Yule (1861-1932) portrayed by Viki Du Mez. This was the most colorful character of those portrayed.  She was the great aunt of Orson Welles (yes he was born here in Kenosha).  Her family was very prominent featuring the owner of the first Kenosha newspaper, mayors, attorneys, and owning Bain Wagon Works. However her family wasn’t free from controversy nor was her life.  Her sister (Orson’s grandmother) may have been a polygamist.  It seems her first husband wandered off never to return so sis married again.  That was shocking to the community.  She and her new husband tried to gain acceptance back into society by throwing lavish parties, of which Harriet and her husband George were very fond.  But seems the rest of Kenosha didn’t like the free wheeling done there nor the cover charge to gain entry.  Then Harriett herself became vice-president in the family business with her husband.  This was Bain Wagon Works.  It was not seemly for a young married woman of her stature to engage in business much less go down to the wagon works and sit in an office working.  She even *gasp* conducted business negations with other men not of the community!  She had a head for financial matters and George had a head for transportation design together they built a nationwide business in noted wagons.  However George died and their son took over the business.  Harriet retired and followed her inclinations, which was to enjoy life.  It was well known that she and her cronies like to party and would often go out in her chauffeured car to various bars around the area.  She would be seen coming home in evening garb when others were starting their day. Finally tiring of being the social pariah in a small mid-west town she decided to follow her niece and great nephew to Hollywood.  On moving day when the movers came to pack up her things they found her in a state of undress in her own bedroom enjoying a chilled mixed drink to start her day.  It is said none of the muscular young men that had come to move her accepted her invitation to join her in a drink!

    History Walk At Green Ridge Cemetery - Great Women of Kenosha
    A tour heading off to the next reenactor.

    I was left wanting more stories from more women of the past.  Sadly this year’s historic walk had come to a close.  I made some pictures of unique monuments and vowed to come back before next year just to photograph the other unique ones I saw in the distance.  Oh and I also vowed that next year we’d get there early again to be sure to meet more people from Kenosha’s past.

    As always there are more photos of the day over at my Flickr account.  You can get there by clicking any image in the article (not the title image) then look around.  Also if you’d like to see an image larger, any image including the title image, then click on it! Until next time!

  • Liberty Cemetery in Salem, Wisconsin

    Liberty Cemetery in Salem, Wisconsin

    Salem Wisconsin

    Mike has been helping me keep an eye out for photo opportunities locally. He knows I must feed the blog pictures and subject matter daily Monday through Friday. One thing he cut out of the paper and pinned to the fridge was a series of history walks in Salem, Wisconsin. Perfect for me!

    The only problem was it started at 5pm each day and Mike gets off work at 5pm. These feed the blog things are stuff we do together. With effort on his part we made it to the final one – the history walk in Liberty Cemetery.

    Salem is a small town just west of Kenosha City (where I live) but still in Kenosha county. It’s getting out in farm land territory back in the days when Kenosha was founded and much of it is still villages and farms to this day.

    We had missed the previous three nights history walks. So we didn’t know the full stories of some of the people the tour guide pointed out. Also we aren’t from the area so names of prominent families meant nothing to us. Nor did her explaining that Mr. So and Sos farm from the early 1900s took was is now the Jones, Smith, and Brown farms today. Still we did learn a few things and I’ll share those with you.

    Liberty Cemetery Salem, WI

    Mike and I knew that Kenosha was originally called Southport. It was founded by a group from Utica New York who decided they needed a port on Lake Michigan. That’s all we knew. We’d pondered why a group in Utica thought they needed to send families here to make a port. We’d lived in Ballston Spa and I’d worked in Schenectady New York. So we knew where Utica was and that it didn’t even have a port on Ontario the closest Great Lake. What possessed them to think they needed to start one all the way over here on Lake Michigan?

    Capt Tuttle’s story held our answer. It appears in the mid 1800s in Utica they still followed the tradition of the first son inherits the full farm. The second and later sons were just out of luck. So Utica wanted to offer an outlet to these non-inheriting sons and their families. This was the beginning of the lumber boom here in Wisconsin. The thought was to form a company to send these families west to settled there and send first wood then later produce to fuel the growth in the eastern seaboard. Forward thinking really, as the small New England farms were going and the big cities of New York, Boston, and Philadelphia were booming.

    Liberty Cemetery Salem, WI

    Utica formed a company for this venture along the lines of the West Indies Company that helped expand into the Carribean but this was to expand to the western shore of Lake Michigan. That’s where Capt. Tuttle comes in, he was hired as part of this company. He owned a large sailing vessel and was the mode of transportation from an Lake Ontario port to the new Southport on the west side of Lake Michigan. Passengers purchased fare to transport them to Southport, put them up there for a few weeks then they were to go west and claim land. Capt Tuttle retired to Kenosha (then Southport) a very wealthy man and knew most of the families in the area as he’d helped them settle there.

    Liberty Cemetery Salem, WI

    You notice these tree style markers in many cemeteries around here. I always wondered was it a fad at the turn of the century in this area? Did it mark say founders who cleared the land for farming? What was the significance of such a marker. It was for members of the Modern Woodman Fraternal Order. Their footings even were made to look like logs. Sorry these photos are off but night was falling and I had to really adjust to get enough light for the image. Apparently I didn’t hold still enough.

    Liberty Cemetery Salem, WI

    The Montgomery family claim to fame was a connection to Mary Todd Lincoln. One of the Montgomery women was a private nurse to Mrs. Lincoln for a time. I found that interesting and wish I’d gotten the name of the woman who was the nurse. Maybe next time I’ll catch that.

    I found this next marker interesting. See the stone there behind the flamingo. Those flamingo markers were used by the tour guide to mark the graves she was talking about. She stopped to tell us about this stone.

    Liberty Cemetery Salem, WI

    It’s a natural stone from the Hollister family farm. They were the only family to haul a natural stone from their farm to mark their family plot. Here’s a picture of the other side.

    Liberty Cemetery Salem, WI

    As you can see it is carved. I know it is simple but I think it is lovely. I actually like it better than some of the fancy ornate markers of other family plots. This one came from their home and is elegant in the simplicity of it.

    Liberty Cemetery Salem, WI

    I liked this stone. Farmer Brown’s is a large produce farm in the area. Right now it’s their big cabbage and pumpkin season. Once when I was at my parents I noticed the pumpkins for sale in their local store had come from Farmer Brown’s in Kenosha Wisconsin. This marker did something a tombstone rarely does – it made me smile. I thought of happy farmer with happy produce. I thought of Aaron as a baby when I’d read the children’s book Farmer Brown. “The cows are hungry but where is…” and he’d shout at the top of his lungs “FARMER BROWN!” I liked it even though I didn’t know the man or his family. I instantly had warm feelings for them. However, the tour guide did say some Brown family members think it is too cartoony and want it changed to something more respectable. To me what’s more respectable than being remembered with a smile and good thoughts?

    That’s our little tour of the small “old” cemetery in Kenosha. I put old in quotation markers because to me this is such a new area. I mean Wisconsin was only made a state in 1848. So the “old” grave here were after that. I was raised in a church that was over 200 years old. I lived in Charleston South Carolina where the OLD homes were built in the late 1600s. My grandfather was born in 1899 so I can name my line back to 1848 from memory! This is a young place still establishing itself. Still I loved learning about the area, seeing the history and hearing the tales of those who lived here before me. Except unlike them I intend to die somewhere warm preferably on a beach with pineapple dink in my hand watching a hunky pool boy.

  • Why I Like Cemeteries

    Why I Like Cemeteries

    Salem Wisconsin

    I’ve always liked cemeteries. No, not for the macabre reasons. I them for lots of reasons.

    I like them because they are peaceful and scenic. If you want a place to go and be left to your thoughts, a cemetery is the place. Honestly even in a big city it’s quiet and people leave you alone. I’m not advocating being unsafe here like going to dangerous areas alone or at night in areas not well lit. But to sit quietly and think without shouts of people playing and such. A nice cemetery is the place to go.

    Liberty Cemetery Salem, WI

    They are great places to learn photography due to textures, colors, distances, shapes, etc. You can learn a lot about composition of shots. You can learn about depth of field and focus. You can work on macro and distance compositions. You can gain different textures to see how it effects the shots and mood of the prints. It’s where I went to learn how to use a SLR before there was any automatic settings at all – everything was manual and I used film.

    Liberty Cemetery Salem, WI
    Notice how the same shot changes in mood given the exposure type.
    Liberty Cemetery Salem, WI
    Notice how the same shot changes in mood given the exposure type.

    Cemeteries are an excellent place to learn history of an area. Without a guide you can wander a cemetery looking at death dates to pick up times of hardship in a community. You can see bad winters, epidemics, and armed conflicts. You can see about when the earliest people came to the area by the dates on the oldest graves. You can know a lot about cultural influences by the monuments and methods of burial. If you know your symbols of tombs and general symbology of the predominate culture (in the old US cemeteries that’s predominately European) you can learn about the people – their hopes, dreams, fears, and loyalties.

    Liberty Cemetery Salem, WI

    If you are into genealogy you can learn a lot about families. Often on the tombs you’ll get marriages, children, and such. You can see how say this family merged with that one with several marriages over a century. You can also watch family names die out as a generation of only girls marry off to other names. Sometimes you can see immigration patters as places of birth or death are noted if they aren’t where the plot is located. You can find information about military service that will lead to military records and more finds.

    Liberty Cemetery Salem, WI

    This time of year there are many cemetery tours. Some offer tales of the spooky and some offer history, I enjoy both types. Recently Mike and I went on two of these tours that were history centered. The photos here came from those walks. I’ll be doing posts to tell what I learned on the walks but first I thought October was the perfect time share a post in the praise of cemeteries beyond a place to store the dead.

    Until next time!